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Fazeela Siddiqui

Newborn baby boy laying on a table right after birth.
(Parent)hetical, Parts of a Whole

Circumcision: To Cut Or Not To Cut

When I learned that male circumcision is so widespread in the US due to Dr. John Harvey Kellogg’s fear of masturbation, and not health concerns, I took major pause.

When I was ~4 months pregnant, my doctor called to tell me that my womb created a “male”.  I remember thinking it surreal that my body had just created a penis. How rad and crazy and insane. I have two sisters . . . my childhood centered on periods, long hair stuck in shower drains, and “borrowing” clothes. So when my partner asked my opinion on whether we should circumcise or not (sorry, CUT my child’s BODY PART) I felt sick to my stomach.

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(Parent)hetical

5 Ways To Overcome Tokophobia

I honestly thought I would never have a kid . . . And then one weekend, I had a feeling. I took a test and two lines appeared on the stick. I was nauseous, numb and called my two best friends, immediately. We talked, talked, talked, talked and I slept. The next morning, I woke up, in shock, wondering if I should call my Partner, but I thought “everything will change the minute you tell Them”, so I refrained for another day.

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